Burning Bridges - When to Fire Your Boss

Is that possible? Yes, it is. Honestly, I fired my boss. Don’t get me wrong, I didn’t literally say, “Boss your fired.” But, it was the moment in time in my career life that I got to a point that I’m not satisfied in an 8-hour day-shift job. Because of this, I resigned.

Though I was truly earning very well on being a therapist that time, I decided to quit. It took me many weeks before I shot that bullet out. It was relief a sense of freedom. I was enlightened about the fact that I want more. I want to push myself to the limits into other career path. If you have thoughts or plans in quitting your job consider this options that I’m going to mention.

REASONS

  • More Sad Than Happy

This is the main factor to consider. If you’re not happy anymore then quit or resign. But, before doing this, analyze your experiences at work. I took a few days off work. Then I analyzed or evaluated all of my experiences from day one till present. It made me realized that I was more sad than happy. So, I decided to quit and move on.

  • Lean Advancement

Promotion, salary increase, bonuses, and benefits. These are what we call advancement. These are some of the important things you need to consider before quitting. If one or two is missing, stagnant or gradual then perhaps it is time to shift career.

  • Thin Catch

Earnings or profit is one of especial factors to consider. Are you satisfied with your present salary? Or, you want more? Is it enough for yourself or family? Are you spending more than earning? And a lot of other questions that goes with it.

  • Time

Contract, overtime, downtime, days off, holidays, etc. These are the moments in time that you need to consider reviewing before you decide to quit. Does your present work occupies most of your time than regular 8-hour job? If so, does your present work force you to work even on weekends, holidays, etc. Analyze your thoughts and feelings about this. How does it makes you feel? Are your comfortable with it? If most of your answers are on the negative aspect then reconsider quitting.

  • Fear

‘The fear of losing a job.” This is one of the biggest hindrances when deciding to quit your job. A lot of people are afraid of ‘losing’ their job. I believe this is because they’re not ready and don’t have other options if they quit. Honestly, I myself experienced this. I was afraid to lose my day-shift career. Why? I wasn’t ready yet. I didn’t plan ahead in time on other options to consider. But, when the ‘right’ time came and I was ready, I conquered my fear.

  • Fading Wishes

We work because we want to earn for a living. But, also we want to provide some of our necessities and wants for ourselves and/or family. And, don’t forget, we work because we want to buy things that makes us feel proud and happy. These are our wishes right? So, does your present job helps you fulfill all these wishes or not? How do you feel about it?

This is a case to case basis. If it works for others, it might not work for you. But, if you feel three out of these six factors are totally affected then perhaps you need to consider burning the bridge and consider these solutions.

SOLUTIONS

  • Be Prepared

Before you speak out those words “I quit” or “I resign” to your boss make sure you are ready. Look for options. In choosing options, know your passion the one thing you really want to do. As Confucius says, “Choose a job you love and you’ll never have to work a day in your life.” Examples are starting out a small business or perhaps a virtual career, etc.

  • Resources

Being prepared not only involves having some options but also resources. This entails investments such as time and money. If your option is to start your passion or small business then you need to prepare these investments.

  • Set Goals

To plan means having set of goals. This can be short-term or long-term goals. This depends on what options you planned about after quitting your job. Make sure your goals are achievable.

  • Challenges

In every beginnings, of course, there are new challenges along the way with your new found career or passion. All you need is to be prepared, plan ahead, set goals and allocate resources.

Thankfully, I quit my day job. Now I’m happy, contented, fulfilled and earning from my present career as a virtual assistant.

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Sometimes impressive things are those that are extremely simple.

– Paul Hafalla

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Lifestyle Change - A Goal to Reset

Ouch!
My tummy hurts. I felt gradual burst of hyperacidity. This is also known as heartburn. It is caused primarily by sedentary lifestyle. And a sedentary life per se means lack of exercise, improper diet, etc. This is the kind of life that I am presently dealing with. Until now my hyperacidity triggers. But, thankfully, it is slowly fading away because I started to change.

Whom to Blame
IT’S NOT MY WORK as a virtual assistant, but it’s totally me to blame. Why? I neglected to continue a healthy lifestyle. I eluded myself to do what I love. I forgot to eat food in moderation, exercise, etc.

But, not only that
Also, I started to feel body aches and pains such as low back pain now chronic because of prolonged siting. And sometimes I also feel calf cramps, pins and needles sensation on the foot, and fatigue. Sadly, I am mildly obese. My weight is 65 kilos and my ideal weight should be 50 kilos. I remember last summer I had an incident of hypertension. I vomited and got rushed to the hospital for immediate medication which relieved my high blood pressure. This happened after I ate two pieces of large shrimps, which, I guess, are too high in bad cholesterol. Sometimes when I am working for many hours on my desk, I feel fatigue and stress which only relieved when I had a good night sleep.

Role Model
Learn from my mistakes. I definitely not advise to follow what I’m doing because it’s not ideal. From my experiences, I suggest you should prioritize your health above all. And for me, as I said, “I started to change.” I decided to go back from a healthier living period. I know it’s gonna be tough and a big challenge.

Inspiration
I started to do mountain bike and stationary bike in the morning. This is every 30 to 60 minutes. And I do this alternately every day. To get me motivated to reach what I desire (lose weight), I gathered some inspirations. I watched and read success stories from people who did it. These are people who lose weight and how they did it successfully. I know it’s only 15 kilos that I must lose but it’s a tough challenge for me.

Setting Goals
I must set goals. This is what people advised me to do, my friends, family and doctor. Overall, I must change my lifestyle 360 degrees now. In terms of diet, I will have to eat normally at least 3 times a day. But, this means no fatty foods and low in carbohydrates meal. I will have to lessen the cups of rice that I eat in a meal. From 3 cups to 1 cup a meal and more on vegetables. In terms of exercise, as I said above I started doing it now. I’m also considering going back to the gym for an hour workout. Definitely, I need aerobics to burn fat fast. I hope I find a gym nearby that caters aerobics.

I’m not there yet. The goals I set for myself, I hope will work this time. When I looked at my old photos, I was fit and healthy. I wish to be that person again someday.

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Case Study #3 - Personal Brand

How I recreated my image?

The Case
“You can’t serve two masters at the same time.” This is so true. I’m marketing myself as a creative virtual assistant. Before, I was creating art plus serving as a virtual assistant. So, I decided to hybernate my creative talent for a while. Now, portraying my role as a successful virtual assistant. Why?

Two years in a row my creative career online wasn’t progressing. In fact, it plateaued into the midst of melancholy, not making sales. I have done everything to portray my image as a visual artist online. This ‘everything’ are networking with artistic people, managing a hi-stat artistic blog, joining art groups online and offline, participating from invitations of various gallery exhibitions worldwide online, etc.

This made me wonder why. My art is not in question cause I could say its good and other critics appreciated it. From mentions of various art galleries and blogs online to multiple awards.

The Choice
It’s a tough decision to make cause I love doing both. But I have to give up one and go on with the other. So, I chose the path of becoming a successful virtual assistant. Why? Honestly, I’m a man with limited resources so I needed a stable career to live.

But, what is personal brand?
Basically, it’s a strategy of marketing yourself as a brand. Not literally selling yourself but your skills or talent. This trading strategy is being practice then and now. Successful personal brands are actors/actresses, business owners, etc. Example of which are Donald Trump, Justine Bieber, etc.

How I recreated my image?
When I decided to be a VA, I planned within a few weeks on what to do. First, I rebranded my website. I mean given up the old blog and now designed and managing a personal VA website paulhafalla.com and even this blog. I also reshaped my networks into right people who have the same interest, which is virtual assistance not art. I have already established successful freelance portfolio on Fiverr, oDesk, and Elance. So, I interconnected everything even my social media.

The Result
Success! The choice I made now defines a brighter promising future. All the hardwork pays off. I’m already earning. I haven’t reached the status I really want on my online career but I will get there soon. And when I reached that level, it will be helpful not just for myself but also for my loved ones.

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Here’s Mine, What’s your Verse?

Every person has their own story to tell either online or not. Awhile ago, I was surfing the Apple Store on my iPad. On first glance at their website, I’ve seen this article. It is called ‘What will your verse be?” To my curiosity, I browsed this interesting article stories. I got inspired to what I’ve read and seen. These are testimonies of various types of people. They’re showing how they are using their iPad.

I’ve learned that this gadget is very versatile. It can be used for all types of profession. Like Yaoband from Beijing who composes techno music using an iPad. Inspiring travels of Cherie King and useful explorations of Emily Harrington and Adrian Ballinger. Also, creative video shots of Feroz Khan. Lovely compositions of Esa-Pekka Salonen and a lot more. Because of this, I wanna share with you ‘my own verse.’

Why iPad?
I acquired my own iPad Mini Retina a few days ago. That was August 15, 2014. Why? Honestly, my eMachines netbook laptop is a bit slow now. Yes, it’s sturdy and old and very slow when browsing the internet. I’m finding it difficult to multitask now unlike the first few months I had this. With my kind of job, I really need a fast and reliable machine. Actually, I wish to own a Mac Air but I can’t afford it. It’s really too expensive. I don’t have enough resources to buy it.

Plan B
As an alternative, I decided to use “plan B.” What is my plan B? Well, it goes like this. I will set aside my decision on buying a Mac cause I can’t afford it. So, I bought an iPad. And what’s the plan? Simple, I’ll hang on to my old eMachines laptop and incorporate my iPad with it. What I mean is instead of using one laptop I will be using another machine while on work online.

As a Result
And it works! Yes, it does. It took me a few hours to ‘get use to’ on how to use it. All I can say is ‘wow.’ This machine did impress me. Honestly, I hated Apple cause there products are too expensive. But, now I came to realize that I was wrong. I am able to multitask using this as an extension to my work. As a virtual assistant, you are required to use a lot of softwares and tools. It made my work easier.

Routine
My simple routine goes like this. First, I’ll check all emails. Second, do tasks based on received messages from my online bosses around the globe. Third, open and use useful tools to complete the tasks. Finally, send the accomplished task to clients, my bosses. Await for response such as comments and/or further instructions regarding the tasks. Simple isn’t it? Honestly, not. For my years of experience ‘it is’ but for beginners like you it’s not. It will take of experiences on various types of skills doing my kind of work.

A Glitch
One day my internet reception was a bit slow. That was Saturday. So, I decided to go to a nearby caffe to log online via wi-fi. It’s a great thing that I saved some important links and useful apps on my iPad to use. Okay, I admit, there are certain things I can’t do on my iPad that I can do better on my laptop. But, at least, my time at work for the day wasn’t wasted. More or less 60% of which I accomplished that day.

And My Verse Is
It’s very simple. My own verse is a continuous process of discovery and usefulness. It will be fun and worthwhile. A journey that me and my iPad will enjoy and cherish for a long time.

Here’s a photo of my iPad. So, what’s your verse?

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As long as I am living, I’m still in the process of making a mark. It only ends when I die but will continue to linger if it’s worth remembering.

– Paul Hafalla

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Skills Aren’t Enough, You Also Need These

“Hi Paul, I have been in the business for many months now. Also acquired almost all of the skills noted on your article ‘6 Virtual Assistant Skills That You Can Easily Sell Online.’ Though this makes me feel like jack-of-all-trades or skill hoarder, I love being a VA. I do have my own blog and I’m also socially active online. I have been posting some gig offers to almost every freelancing websites online since. Though I’m getting few clients but earnings are still minimal and inconsistent. This is quite frustrating though and I was thinking of quitting now. Why I’m not getting any regular clients yet and my earnings are still what I haven’t aspire to be?”

I have read this message from one of my avid Tumblr blog readers. I wasn’t sure who the person was since it was anonymously sent. But, he gave me a thought to ponder about for a week. I can’t really decipher his situation since the initial message is insufficient. I need more facts perhaps a little chat maybe. Sometimes you really need to dig more in order to give a genuine helpful advice.

Instead of sharing my thoughts about it to one, I decided to share to all. Here’s my stand on this query. “Sometimes skills aren’t enough you also need these.” “These” I’m pertaining to are as follows:

Polish It More: “The shiniest object always captivates the eye.” Okay, let’s just assume you have all the basic skills of something. But, this isn’t enough. Always think about this. The virtual assistant career is massive worldwide and online. So the competition is very, very huge and tough. You will be judged according to what you present or deliver to your clients. The only way to ‘shine’ get on top of the game is to polish your skills. How? CONTINUOUS LEARNING IS A MUST in order to mold your skills better. You can either do this on your own time and pace or with other people. There are so many resources online such as eBooks/books, articles/blogs, magazines, etc.

Right Network: “Connecting with the wrong hub or port is highly unlikely.” Almost all of us have a website, blog or social network nowadays. It became an epitome of our ‘virtual’ existence right? Since you have one of these the question is, “Are you in the right network?” What I’m asking is are you connected or interacting with the right people online. If not, now is the time to sort things out and make a change. Why? If you’re connected with the CORRECT NETWORK, getting hired or landing a job is easier. Also, referrals and group work projects are very likely. Sorry to say this but you need to say goodbye to some of your networks now. How? Join with the right social media groups and pages. Befriend and interact to people with similar skills as yours both online and offline. Never forget to include on this list potential businesses or clients in your network. Of course, excluded on this rule are your family and close friends.

Positive Attitude: “The level of your success is in direct proportion with your attitude.” Sometimes but not often, people who achieve greatest success in life are the ones who had the BEST ATTITUDE not necessarily the smartest. Honestly, I am not a smart guy and I never was. The only key ingredients that defined my success are these disciplines. I am eager to learn and know new things. I focus and value my time on what is important to my online VA career and personal life. I am very independent but can also work along very well with a team or group. Regarding a job or task, I am very open and honest to my regular and new clients if I can or can’t do the job. If I can do it, I always ensure high quality work and on time. Once a client handed me a task, I work really hard to complete it. Sometimes but not often, if I screw a task or job I will correct it. If I can’t, I seek out help and advice with my networks and friends online.

Listen and Communicate Very Well:What you write or say defines who you are.” Yes, it does. You need to have proper decorum in talking or writing to a client. This can be in a form of what you say or what you have written about. Good listening skills and verbal plus written communication will help you and the client get the job done easily.

You must learn English both written and verbal. The primary language in the online world is English. In the virtual world, almost everything we see, read, or hear are based on this language. So IT IS A MUST that you know this language very, very well. If not, start to learn it today with a teacher or self-help manuscripts, eBooks/books, articles/blogs or video tutorials.

I’m not a firm believer with the saying, ‘You can’t teach old dog new tricks.’ The truth is you really can. No matter how old you are as long as you love what you do and willing to make a change it is possible.

In conclusion, getting regular or new clients is really tough nowadays. But, it always boils out to ‘these’ 4 essential elements. These elements are what clients really looking for in a suitable candidate. So, it’s never too late to make a change and start over. Though you will spend a lot of time polishing these 4 elements from now on, it will be worthwhile. Trust me!

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Case Study #2: Transcribing an Interview

Unpaid Fixed Rate Service

Sad, worry, depress, angry and miserable. These are my feelings when a client didn’t pay. Did you also felt the same way when someone makes you feel stupid? After completing the task and submitted it, all you get are ignored messages and forgotten payment.

The Client & Task

I logged into a website one day checking for messages and recent job posts. This site is one of the leading freelancing website named oDesk. While browsing pages on this site, I came across a ‘transcription’ gig. This was posted by an Australian client. His profile in oDesk seems trustworthy. It has reviews and previous hires with rates. So, I read the task and proposed my rate. He picked me out of all the 20 people who proposed. We agreed to a specific rate and terms. One of which is without initial payment and to be completed in 3 days. Eventually, I completed and sent the transcript in MS Word format. Of course, I submitted this document through oDesk.

I am aware about the fact that this was a FIXED RATE GIG. I also read the pros and cons of ‘fixed rates’ in oDesk. One of their policy is that oDesk have no control over ‘fixed rates’. It means that they cannot guarantee if a freelancer will receive payment or not.

How I Resolved This Problem

I came to the point to file a complaint in oDesk Help & Support. Why? I have already sent multiple messages to the client regarding the payment. To my dismay, I haven’t received any replies or payment. After a few days, I received a reply from oDesk regarding this issue. Sadly, as I expected, they can’t resolve the problem. I requested for that client to be banned in oDesk which they refused to do.

Outcome

I have so many regrets when I’ve transcribed this client’s audio transcript. In fact, it was almost 98% accurate I mean with high quality transcript. One of my regrets is that I should have at least required an initial payment. If I have proposed this request maybe the client will not ignore to pay.

Learning from this experience, I decided ‘to be picky’ from now on. Specifically when it comes to fixed rate jobs in oDesk or other freelancing websites. This is one of the major problems with freelancing websites. There’s no guaranteed payment for fixed rate jobs. In some cases, even if the client sent initial payment still there’s no guarantee. You can’t ensure if they will pay you the remaining balance.

Regardless of the risks involved in online work, I do love transcribing. In fact, I just recently transcribed a video interview from a trustworthy client. I converted the MP4 video into MP3 format to easily transcribe it. Why? I’m using a transcription software, it only requires MP3 format. It makes my transcription life easier using this software or tool. Of course, this is a TRUSTWORTHY oDesk CLIENT. What I meant is he completely sent the payment for my services.

I hope you learn something from this case. As a piece of advice, be very careful when it comes to fixed rate terms. Did you also experience this in the past? What did you do to resolve it? I’d love to hear your point of view.

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COMMENTS

I think as popular as oDesk and Elance and all these other freelancing websites are, there really is still the risk of coming across these dishonest types. And they aren’t just from the freelancer side of the camp either, as you yourself experienced with this client that made off with your work without paying. Did you push through with your freelancing on oDesk after that incident? Do you think oDesk themselves should be held accountable for such instances? - Edsel Mendoza of Bolton Group, LLC on August 26, 2014

I’ve learned from my mistakes. Because of that incident, I am ‘very choosy’ and careful now in doing business either with these freelancing websites or direct clients. Of course, I’m continuing business with these websites. It’s the trend! Besides the ‘little’ value I’m gaining from it now, I still offer my services with them though. - Paul (reply)

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